The very core of loneliness is in fact so peaceful and calm. It’s independent of the thousands of things that become your concerns every day and leave you feel dissatisfied and annoyed.
After being sociable and remaining a very social individual for as long as I can remember, today I realize and have for a while, how much we truly need people; that’s not much, not at all!!
More than anything, we do not need people’s trash which is a very massive part of their everyday mentality and they just really take pleasure in taking off the load and emptying it on you and your personality.
They do tend to empty their load of trash on you and your personality, whether you ask for it or not really; and this is something that I personally do not take so much pleasure in, you see.
And yet people are there every day to do that very thing; yes, for that, they’re always there; if only for that; and that’s all the time that they need you: every single day.
And as for you, needing them to be there, yes, that happens very rarely if ever. People really tend to suddenly disappear and not be there for you once you truly need them.
And they only disappear because they have to go and live their own lives obviously; and that’s just fine, absolutely okay. But then again, this very legit excuse does not make up for the fact that they suddenly leave you alone and are not there, does it?
Loneliness is indeed lacked for us all, that’s a very factual fact; and then we’re lonely and we see how alone one can get. That’s when you need someone if not a few to be there and to understand how it is to be there.
To go deep and how deep to go are not your primary concerns; but they’re there to push you forward and that’s just the silver lining I suppose. Not for everyone; for few if not very few though.
And we live life just as each and every one of us does; together or solo we live.